BEST Sex Ever! (Rules for Sex)

Original Posting:
http://best-marriage-tips-sex.blogspot.com/2013/06/best-sex-ever-rules-for-sex.html

There have been many times when we have been approached by couples with one common problem: They love each other but their sex life isn’t up to par. You don't have to have a bad sex life for this advice to help. You can always use this information to upgrade your sex life into a more pleasing, fulfilling act that you can’t wait to be a part of.

Sex should be a wonderful, extreme, mind-blowing experience. Sadly, I've heard many people thinking about it as a rip-off, because people always talk wonders about sex and they have never felt anything close to wonderful during it. Also I have heard that sex is crap, and I can't wait for my partner to get it done and over with... All these thoughts are depressing because that means that these people have not discovered yet, how wonderful sex really is.

Rules for SEX: 

Rule #1 Boundaries

Remember not everyone likes the same things. The benefit, among many others, about having only one sex partner is that you have the opportunity to grow and learn to please your partner. Before you have sex, be sure to make some simple rules about what’s ok and what’s not ok. For example, some women (and men too) LOVE to give oral sex, on the other side of the spectrum others absolutely hate it. I have heard women say things like: It was so gross; he wanted to put that thing in my mouth. Can you believe it? To this statement I always ask, have you talked to him about it? The answer to this question 9 times out of 10 is a loud resounding no. How can your partner know if you’re willing or ok with something without this necessary communication? The answer is they won’t. 

Rule #2 Pornography

Remember that we live in a world where 2/3 of all the people out there have watched porn at one time or another. The internet has opened a door where Playboy type porn just isn’t enough. Hardcore Porn, among many other variations, is available at the click of a mouse. I'm telling you this because odds are your partner has watched porn at one point or another, (whether they will admit it or not.) Porn gives has morphed the basic definition for some people of what sex is. Sometimes when a couple is having sex they expect their partner to do what the porn stars did in the film. So before you expect your partner to do something you saw in your favorite X-Rated film, talk to them. 

Rule 2-A        When you are in a committed relationship porn could be used as foreplay. It can be quite a turn on to see your partner release their inhibitions and show you what turns them on.  

Rule 2-B         NEVER watch porn without your partner, this can lead to mistrust and can be a sign of a very potent addiction.

Rule 2-C         If you want to try something new that you and your partner saw that you think may be interesting, talk about it. Remember communication is the key to have a healthy sex life, which brings us to the next rule.

Rule #3 Communication 

Always communicate with your partner with what is ok, and what is not, for example: I love to go down on you, and I love when you go down on me too. But there are some things I am not comfortable with, like anal sex, bondage, etc. 

Rule 3-A         ALWAYS REMEMBER NO MEANS NO, any breaking of this rule can and possibly will lead to the following consequences: Loss of your partners trust, Jail time, hefty fines, criminal record, and an exclusive spot on the top of the sex offenders watch list.

Rule 3-B         Remember that no matter what gender your partner is, THEY CAN NOT READ MINDS! So either give them a hand at guessing or just lay it all out on the table.

Rule #4 Don’t Judge

The longer we are in a relationship, the better we know our partner. What does our partner like, what don't they like. Always remember sex must be ALWAYS BE COMPLETELY NON-JUDGMENTAL. Be willing to try something new. What does it hurt to try something at least once? If you don’t, how would you know that you don't like it if you’ve never tried it?

Rule #5 Trust and confidence is a necessity.

We must provide a safe environment for our partner to express themselves freely. Here are some simple guidelines to follow.

Rule 5-A        The details of your sexcapades will never leave your relationship.

Rule 5-B        What we do or don’t do stays here. 

Rule 5-C         One of the most important rules of all (even so important we kind of mention it twice in a roundabout way)DON'T DO ANYTHING YOUR PARTNER DOESN'T WANT YOU TO. 

Rule #6 Foreplay

Part of creating a loving, hot environment, always remember that: MEN are ALWAYS ready, but WOMEN need a little bit of time to WARM UP. So go ahead, take a shower before getting intimate, play with some whipped cream and strawberries, maybe kiss each other all over, and try playing a little before you actually try to penetrate. Remember if you not willing to put some effort into it, the women will not enjoy it. Instead of enjoying it they will absolutely dread having sex because it hurts, and they probably did not even achieve orgasm. The biggest pride for a man should be the ability to make his girl orgasm, because it takes some work but is worth it in the end. The more practice you both get, we might even start talking about multiple orgasms for him and his girl!!! Pretty cool huh?

Remember that both guys and girls feel sexy, attractive, and gorgeous during sex. Go a step further and remind your partner how desirable he or she is, how beautiful, how sexy, and how much he or she gets you going. Sex is wonderful, but you got to feel right about it in order to enjoy it fully.